1. Acknowledge and Ask for What You Want -
we are so well practiced at deferring to the preferences of others, so effective at denying ourselves that we barely know how to connect to our desires. What if we could?
3. Available for Abundance -
we will get what we are given, we will not be too much, or take too much, or experience too much… except, what if we did?
2. Appearance Ambivalence-
we are so well trained that our value, our right to exist even can be equated with our proximity to prettiness, that ‘ugly’ days (or years) keep us gagged, shrunken and deeply uncomfortable. What if we actually didn’t give GAF?
4. Alliance with Others -
we have been double agents for the patriarchy, imprisoning each other in a tiny pen that contains the only acceptable versions of womanhood. When others have dared to step foot outside it, we’ve condemned them, either shaming them back inside, or excluding them. What if we thanked them and emulated them instead?